
How can I help?
Frequently asked questions
INELDA defines an end-of-life doula as a non-medical person who accompanies, educates, and advocates for those who are planning for death, diagnosed with a terminal illness, or facing imminent death, and their circle of care. Doulas also support people and communities who have experienced a sudden death.
Doulas offer resources to help the dying person and their circle of care to make informed decisions in a supportive environment. We offer support when people are impacted by a life changing illness, after a terminal diagnosis, when death is imminent, or even after a death—to help with light grief support. Sometimes family members or loved ones of the person dying seek support and guidance from end-of-life doulas.
Doulas normalize end of life care by creating spaces to hold conversations leading to increased communication and increased spiritual and emotional well being. When individuals plan for death, they have autonomy over their decisions and are able to clearly define their end-of-life wishes with family and loved ones. While there are alternative names for end-of-life doulas like death doula, death midwife, death coach, end-of-life coach—we all seek to provide compassionate end of life care.
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Aside from comfort, education, and care, I can also do things such as assisting with planning your funeral, assisting with living wills and/or trusts, menial tasks such as laundry, making you lunch, assisting with petcare, etc. – Anything that will make your remaining time on earth as easy as possible for you and your loved ones.